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Unread April 4th, 2007, 08:33 AM   #1
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Default So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Why do straight women fool around with other women?

WOMEN: Have you? What are your thoughts?

Other subtopics:

-Is there a time when it's more "ok" or "not ok" than others?
When single? Young? Married? Whenever?

-Is it satisfying?

-Have you ever wanted to?

-Ever regreted?

-Still wondering?

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Unread April 4th, 2007, 08:45 AM   #2
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Close interpersonal relationships, between women, have been well tolerated for a very long time. Ex: girls have been doing "sleepovers" since even before MY time.

Women don't see other women as a threat. They can't get pregnant.

I think there is a cultural dynamic involved there too. Years ago (and still popular today) you had to be Black to get the girl. Then you had to be "sensitive" to get the girl. You've always had to be "rich" to get the girl. Now, you have to be THE GIRL to get the girl.
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Unread April 4th, 2007, 03:46 PM   #3
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

But WHY do women DESIRE this is still the question.

I'd love a woman's perspective perhaps...
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Unread April 4th, 2007, 04:54 PM   #4
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

What?!,
Ya expect the mystery to be unveiled just like that?

I suppose itís about a level of intimacy thatís best supplied by another woman. I often wondered about that myself. Though, as close as my girlfriend is with her friend and roommate, Iíve been curious have they at least experiment once with each other, since they share bond unlike no other.

Perhaps, it is out of curiosity, that many of those females had wondered what it been like to be with another woman.
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Why do straight women fool around with other women?
I think alot of girls do this for their man, or for the attention they get from other men acting out in that way. I have seen at clubs females getting lap dances from each other and grinding all up and down each other, kissing etc. I really don't think half of the girls are really bisexual I think its for attention imo
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

for guys?
ok, that's part of it...in the drunk frat scene...

but after glass of wine, it seems some girls among other girls - just kinda
wonder what it would be like....some act on it. some don't.

...but my GF said her friends were very curious
after she said she tried it....and says MANY women wonder...

i still wonder WHAT THE FEELING IS AND WHY?
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

I'm not straight (by a long shot), so I can't answer for myself, but... if women are fooling around with other girls and liking it, then I would wonder how "straight" they are. I mean, I can see being primarily straight in that they wouldn't want a relationship with another woman, but... if you're getting off from another girl, you're at least bisexual, if leaning heavily towards straight.

That being said, I'd also agree with the statement someone above made that a lot of girls do it to get attention from guys.
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

I think its curiosity honestly. They are curious about it, whats it like, is it enjoyable, can they find spots that my man or men in general cant find? I know that im curious i wont lie, but im not sure that i would ever act on my curiosity.
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Bubbles,

you are straight right?
so...is it that you trust women more? or there are less walls with women as far as bodies and subjects and life? interesting....how old (roughly) would you put yourself...?

i think the curiosity is about...something....

cause i just have NEVER looked at a guy that way...
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Why do straight women fool around with other women?

WOMEN: Have you? What are your thoughts?

Yes, I have. My thoughts are that it usually happens to girls who are "straight" in the best friend relationship. True best friends will develop a bond, an emotional bond that is very deep and very special. It's a form of closeness that just will never happen between guy and girl. It's very hard to explain, but its one of the best feelings in the world. You literally love your best friend and then fall in love with her. And it happens pretty much unkowingly, and then suddenly it becomes physically. Starts with holding, snuggling, and then, in my case, you talk about kissing and then sexual intimacy, and it just happened.

It was amazing, but also complicated as both of us had other relationships. However, if we at all started it through flirting during the day, it would always progress. We're out of that stage now due to a lot of reasons, but remains best friends and the sexual chemistry is just there, it's just not a good time for either of us to engage in it for a variety of reasons, because it is extremely emotional and its hard when we have to leave each other at the end of the night. But we do joke about it and very much desire a future point in our lives when it will happen again.

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-Is there a time when it's more "ok" or "not ok" than others?
When single? Young? Married? Whenever?

I don't know. I think it's something that just happens and its not because you want to cheat or you want to marry your best girlfriend, you're just that close. It happened when I was in a long term relationship of 8 years and my best friend had been married for 1 year. There's a lot of people who would say it was wrong and I understand that it is on a lot of levels, but then, it's different then your run of the mill affair, but its really beyond us to explain to people who haven't been there.

-Is it satisfying?

It's extremely satisfying. When you're that close emotionally to someone, taking it to that next, physical and sexual level is incredible. And women can love like no other.

-Have you ever wanted to?

Wanted to and did.

-Ever regreted?

Never in a million years.

-Still wondering?

Wondering when it will happen again.
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Unread April 4th, 2007, 10:10 PM   #11
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

well done.

so, are you 20's or 30's...
and do you feel attracted to other women?
or consider it a young or rebellious thing?
did your childhood have anything in family that would make you want to rebel a bit....or was it typical?

the reason i ask is that my GF says i'm the first guy that loves her like a man and a woman....so, that feeling was important to her.
but she has tried it too 2x....once with a very close friend - like your example...and she was married....and then she tried it a second time and it wasn't as satisfying....

but again i guess i'd ask...what is the curiosity? for those women who won't likely try it....but wonder....
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

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Bubbles,

you are straight right?
so...is it that you trust women more? or there are less walls with women as far as bodies and subjects and life? interesting....how old (roughly) would you put yourself...?

i think the curiosity is about...something....

cause i just have NEVER looked at a guy that way...

I am 20 and no its not that i trust woman more, i just think that there would be less pressure with a woman than with a man, I dont know i feel as it i wouldnt have to be perfect, it would be more about exploration. And yes i am straight. But i dont think i would have a full blown relationship with a woman, but i wouldnt have a problem with a sexual encounter.
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?


less pressure? interesting.


to perform?
to be loyal?
to orgasm?
to please?

Hmmm...
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

it's the urge to be different and to experience things that are on the edge and naughty...people are desperate to be interesting, or to at least have the sense that they;re not boring or like everybody else...
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

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less pressure? interesting.


to perform?
to be loyal?
to orgasm?
to please?

Hmmm...
in a sense yes, there is less pressure to perform, to me thats how i feel, and in a way maybe less pressure to be loyal. For me because i am a straight woman if i were to have a sexual encounter with a woman and i didnt like it or it didnt work out i wouldnt feel obligated to continue with the experience, i could go back to what i know and am comfortable with, which in this case would be men.
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

so, less pressure to perform....

what about 'body approach" :
by that i mean when women often say another woman is "hot" -
they often go to the bathroom" together
shower together
touch more....

it's a different approach, yes?
perhaps that is part of it.

still, the curiosity is interesting....something emotional and physical i guess??
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Yes you i could agree with the less pressure to perform. And I also think that women approach woman differently. As far as the "Body approach" i dont know what you mean by that. Oh and the emotional and physical curiosity about woman is different that the curiosity about men. (At least to me)
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

By "approach" I mean there is more same-gender openness to start.

That said, What does a woman wonder about a man versus a woman??
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Default Re: So, why do straight women fool around with other women?

Yea i guess there is more openness between genders.

For your second question I dont know. Explain your question a little better please.
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re: second question:
i mean sexually/intimately: what is the curiosity?


I look at a man and see just..a man....
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